Hello Beautiful Soul,
When something is going wrong, or is setting off all kinds of alarm bells that something is totally not vibing with you, thinking positive is NOT the answer. Not as the well-intended advice is often given, anyway.
Of course, we want to affirm what we DO want. That would be a positive expression of some kind. For example: “I live in a peaceful environment”. But it does not mean that we pretend like what is going on doesn’t suck, and hope to think of it ‘positively’ until it doesn’t suck anymore. In other words, we don’t need to affirm that something that feels AWFUL is POSITIVE!
We can ask. ‘How is this experience serving me’? And we can thank the circumstance, situation, what have you, by saying ‘Thank you for helping me move towards fully embodying my purpose’. We can then decide what we don’t want, and from there, affirm what we DO want.
It’s OK to decide that what you really want requires some change. Once you affirm your true desire, you can then choose to take steps, big or small towards that desire each day, with the vision and feel of it in your heart.
Many blessings and so much love to you.
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Ellen Lorraine Niemeier
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